Conditions and Resources of Dialogism of Love Relation of I-Other

The research devoted to theoretical and empirical justification of conditions and resources of dialogical love to Other. The attention is reflexive dimension of relationship as a multidimensional dialog of I - Other. The condition of dialogism of love relationship, according to the results of the research, is implementation in the dimensions "between I and Other", "I-in-Other", "Other-in-I", "I-in-myself." Implementation of dialogical love relationship of I - Other empirically investigated connection with the effects of social position of personality. The sample consisted of 40 people, from19 to 33 years old, having the mutual love relationship. The tools of the research: author's research questionnaire "I in relation to the lover", the questionnaire of socio-psychological adaptation of C.Rogers and F. Dymond, the questionnaire of affiliation of A. Mehrabian, the differential questionnaire of loneliness experience of E.N. Osin and D.A. Leontiev, the test of existential motivations in close relationships of E.M. Ukolova and V.B. Shumsky and the scale of existence of A.Langley. Conclusions of empirical research: there is correlation between complete love relationship of I-Other and the main indicators of the social effectiveness of personality and the subjective evaluation of the social resource of love. There are no differences in characteristics of dialogism of love relationship for men and women. There is no correlation between the duration of the relationship and complete dialogism of love relationship in different dimensions. There is reverse correlation between the age of personality and the complete of dialogical love relationship. Different dimensions of dialogical love relationship of I – Other have specific social resources. Conclusions of the research allowed to identify the prospects for research of opportunities of dialogical love relationship.